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CAPS Threw me a party and I didnt show: A special thanks and Reflection of 2010

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December 28, 2010 – Comments (18)

I would like to give a special thanks to Starfirenv for putting up this thoughtful blog for me on my birthday. 

http://caps.fool.com/Blogs/happy-birthday-outoffocus/463782

Unfortunately I did not see it until last week because I was out of town on vacation that week and I had no access to internet.  That also happened to be the same week my then boyfriend proposed to me. [I said yes =)]

Either way, when I saw that blog and comments I was touched.  I really appreciate all the well wishes. This is truly a great community and I'm glad that I'm apart of it.

This year has truly been momentous for me. I went from being a single girl (dating), working a full time job, self managing my IRA, and running a side business; to making money off the commodities runup, while sitting unemployed trying to turn my side business to a full time business and planning a wedding.  Wow.

I'm approaching all these things from a "grassroots" perspective.  I don't have a lot of money but in all these things I must structure them as if I do have money (without going into debt).  Doing this is challenging and it takes time and patience. But these strategies seem to be working out for me so far. 

My investments: 

As I stated before I didn't start out with alot of money to invest with.  I can only invest money I can afford to spare so it doesnt leave me with alot of options.... So thats what I've been using.  A few well placed call options on silver stocks have allowed my investment account to almost double within the past 6 months.  Even I've been trading options for a few years now, I'm still learning and developing my strategy.  Due to the high risk I've been using small portions of my account option investing.  Then I've been rolling the gains into longer dated options with agressive (low) limit prices. One thing I've learned is option investing requires even more discipline than stock investing because of the wild swings in price (and the recent market volitility adds to this point). You have to develop a desired return then get out and get out quick.  You have to consider high fees and short term capital gains taxes.  Its quite a ride.  But in the end if you dont have alot of cash to start with, its a quick way to raise cash if you know what you're doing. 

My business: 

For those of you who don't know I am a CPA.  I do taxes and I'm in the midst of aquiring licenses to become a Financial Advisor.  But oddly enough I am fascinated by the world of finance.  I've been a member of TMF since I was a junior in college.  My favorite college class Investments. One of the first websites I look at in the morning is the Wall Street Journal. But I digress.

Working with little money, I must have as little overhead as possible.  However, just maintaining a CPA license alone can be quite expensive (CPE requirements, state society fees, licensing fees).  Plus I need software and services to run my business.  So to keep overhead low I'll need to forgo full time office space for now and consider virtual office space.  Virtual space is pretty cheap  (between $50 to $100/month) and offers some basic office services. Because faxing is inevitable, I signed up with an online fax service that costs only $55 a year. I maintain a business page on Facebook for free. I found out that advertising on Facebook is relatively inexpensive.  I've been going to alot of networking events in order to meet potential customers and referrals.  Since I do my own accounting I don't need bookkeeping services but a friend of mine and fellow business owner mentioned that small business owners can also "outsource" bookkeeping work overseas by using online administration services. I dont know much about these services so I still need to do more research into how well these work.   But these are all ways keep work product quality high while keeping overhead low.  In the end what you put into a business is what you get out of it.  But you shouldn't have to always risk going broke doing it. 

My wedding: 

American tradition says the bride's parents typically pay for the wedding.  In an ideal world I'm sure that would happen but unfortunately that is not the case for me.  Though I'm sure my parents will provide some help, as with many couples these days, my fiance and I will be paying for the majority of this wedding ourselves.  Though, I want the wedding to be classy and for everyone to have a good time, I don't want to go into debt just to make that happen.  A few years ago the average wedding cost $28000.  I simply dont believe in paying that much money for one day. I'm not judging anyone who does, its just not me. Therefore, in order to have a wedding with alot of the bang but not so much of the buck is going to alot of research and creativity.   So the first thing I've done is create a cash-only registry. I've had my own place for over 5 years now so I don't need pots, pans, or blenders. I'm considering doing online invitations.  For one, online RSVPs are easier to keep track of and I won't need as much postage. I'm looking into ways to keep my wedding dress less than $1000. I'm even willing to consider used dresses.  My wedding guest list will be limited. Finding the venue will probably be the most challenging. I'm looking into venues that are nice but not so popular.  My thinking is the less well know venues will tend to have the better bargains. 

 

Starting small seems to be a lost art in this country.  For this very reason I'm, if nothing else, quite a few raised eyebrows at my methods.  Everyone wants everything and they have to have it now.  With that attitude is it any wonder why we're so bogged down in debt?

One final thought.  I just read an article saying that more and more people have stopped paying their mortgages.  At the same time retailers have just reported record sales this holiday season.  Are these people spending what should be their mortgage payments on Christmas shopping? If so, what happens when banks start forclosing on these people? Just a thought.  

Happy Holidays and feel free to comment for Foolanthropy. 

 

18 Comments – Post Your Own

#1) On December 28, 2010 at 2:11 PM, kdakota630 (32.05) wrote:

Happy belated birthday.

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#2) On December 28, 2010 at 2:14 PM, TMFBabo (99.99) wrote:

Congratulations!

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#3) On December 28, 2010 at 2:34 PM, rhallbick (99.72) wrote:

Congrats & best wishes, outoffocus.

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#4) On December 28, 2010 at 2:47 PM, Valyooo (99.79) wrote:

Congrats!

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#5) On December 28, 2010 at 2:58 PM, EnigmaDude (98.05) wrote:

Sounds like you are having a great year!  I hope that 2011 is even better for you.  Congrats and best wishes in your "new" life.

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#6) On December 28, 2010 at 4:02 PM, binve (< 20) wrote:

Hey outoffocus!

Happy belated birthday, and congratulations on your engagement!!!

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#7) On December 28, 2010 at 4:10 PM, outoffocus (24.47) wrote:

kdakota630, TMFBabo , rhallbick, Valyooo

THANKS! =)

EnigmaDude  

Thanks!  It has been a great year.  I hope you have a great 2011 as well!

binve

Thanks! 

In other news I see little Binve how now become Big Binve.  Considering what you've been through with that account thats a big jump.  Congrats!!  Fear the Market!

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#8) On December 28, 2010 at 4:13 PM, lemoneater (88.28) wrote:

All the best on your future plans. You don't have to have an expensive wedding.

About eleven years ago, I spent about $1000. It did help that I used my aunt's wedding dress and that my husband-to-be printed out our invitations. I was just going to have cake and punch, but my brothers were horrified at the thought so one of them bought all the sandwich meats as his contribution--nothing like a thoughtful gift!

I could have gotten an organist and church for free, but I didn't want to be that cheap so we paid $200 each for organist and sanctuary rental.

For a wedding cake I got several varieties of Pepperidge Farm cakes. Guests had a choice of flavor. I love the Coconut Cake--I made my own topper out of white roses from a craft department.(I had been to too many weddings where the cake was spoiled from not enough baking by a flustered amateur.)

I had a root beer float for fun along with a traditional wedding punch.

All the best! Have fun! 

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#9) On December 28, 2010 at 4:34 PM, scruffy4life (80.86) wrote:

Scruffy's goin' to get one of them $300 haircuts, this one's lost its pizzazz.

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#10) On December 28, 2010 at 5:58 PM, Starfirenv (< 20) wrote:

outoffocus- You are more than welcome. Congrats on all.
As for your business, going virtual could be a huge plus as well as a money saver. CPAs are pretty common. Maybe a little more Ed and specialize in something. How about IBC's. You could travel or live in the Bahamas, Belize, Panama, USVIs or Philly, NY,Miami, etc and it would be huge "value added" if you opted for the corporate world. The trend is your friend and this one has just begun. Just a thought.
  As for the wedding, I would bet your guests would rather see you spend on an awesome honeymoon than an orchestra. Best Regards.

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#11) On December 28, 2010 at 6:15 PM, Option1307 (30.51) wrote:

What a great year for you, congrats!

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#12) On December 28, 2010 at 10:32 PM, dwot (99.54) wrote:

Good idea on keeping the wedding costs under control.  I couldn't see spending a bundle on a wedding either and we didn't have support from my family either.  My husband's mother stepped in and helped because we were just going to skip the whole party thing and just elope and she wanted a party, so we ended up splitting costs with her.  We had an afternoon catered luncheon in her home.  She paid for the lunch and we covered the rest of it. I love her dearly and she has been a mother to me.

I think the thing I valued the most left from the day is the photographs.  We found a very reasonably priced freelance photographer that did a beautiful album for us and handed over all the minis and the film so we could reproduce whatever we wanted.

Excellent on how you are doing on your investments.  I had a cash account that I doubled in 4 months.  I really don't trust the market and I am too busy to monitor it and have been since I got my job in the north.  It doesn't take too many times doubling your investment money to have a reasonable nest egg.  I did about 200% in 15 months. 

 My job in the north is pretty good so we can theoretically save more so the investments aren't as important, although I have been spending it on home renovations.  But, I have a basement suite generating income now and the necessary work on my home is pretty much done.  Well, I still have some roof repairs.  I put in a basement suite, new furnace, new windows, built a surrounding deck, enclosed the porch, painted an entire 3000 sq ft house, had an extra closet built, put in plumbing for a second washer/dryer, had work on eaves, work on drainage, raised my driveway to drain water (it is gravel and had huge water flowing onto it that would freeze into a sheet of ice)  and I am still in the process of putting in a hardwood floor (seriously go for laminate, putting in hardwood has been a nightmare).

So, have you set a date?

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#13) On December 28, 2010 at 11:53 PM, SweetMircha (91.12) wrote:

Congratulations and a Belated Happy Birthday to go along with it. It sounds as if your birthday present was actually a marriage proposal while you were both on vacation. How exciting that would've been.  Wishing you also a n extremely wonderful & Happy New Year which it sounds already that it'll come to pass.

I had the least expensive wedding but still exquisite at the The Little Chapel of the Flowers in Las Vegas in Aug '09. I couldn't have had it done here in Victoria, BC for $495.00 which included the christian ceremony, brides bouquet, photos and even picked up by a limousine at the hotel with return also by limo. It was great. All that for the basic price. Amazing.

It's something for you to add to your list of inexpensive alternatives which you can totally book online, except for the marriage license of $60- done in person.

Happy Planning.

Mary

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#14) On December 29, 2010 at 6:57 AM, outoffocus (24.47) wrote:

Lemoneater,

Thanks! Sounds like you had a nice quiet affair.  Pepperidge farm cakes sound delicious. Thanks

Scruffy, lol

Starfirenv, 

Actually I live outside of Philly and have a nice client base in philly.  I'm specializing in taxes and financial planning.  Specifically, tax prep, planning, and representation, life insurance, investments, and debt management.   There are only 2 guarantees in live, death and taxes, and I cover both when it comes to financial planning.  There aren't many CPAs that do full on financial planning so its sort of a niche.  Also, my target market is small businesses.

Also, I agree about the honeymoon. Thanks

 

Option1307,  Thanks!

Dwot,

I havent had a big party thrown in my honor since I was like 7 years old, despite all my accomplishments, so I definitely want this to be it.  Otherwise we would just elope.  We didn't set a date because I had just become unemployed when he proposed but I'm sure we will set one soon. Thanks

xuanchang, 

I doubt a puma slipper would look nice with a wedding dress.  And I wont be going to you website to look for a dress. Nice try though.

SweetMircha, 

Sounds nice.  We've considered (and still considering) a "destination wedding".  The wedding license is the most important part and its worth the money. =) Thanks

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#15) On December 29, 2010 at 8:50 AM, TMFBabo (99.99) wrote:

I'm not getting married anytime soon, but I commend your decision to have a sensible wedding instead of an extravagant one.  I'd have to go into debt myself if I had to pay out of pocket big-time for something like a wedding and I'd be shaking my head for the next several years as I sent payments for the debt incurred by the one-time splurge.

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#16) On December 29, 2010 at 11:17 AM, silverminer (36.91) wrote:

outoffocus,

Your username is a misnomer ... you are clearly in focus! :)

Happy birthday, and congratulations on your engagement!

I don't know what part of the country you're in, but outdoor venues for the wedding ceremony are not only beautiful, but also tend to be inexpensive.

I'm very happy for you, and I hope your precious metal investments continue to perform beautifully so as to offset the pain of wedding expenditures. :)

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#17) On January 01, 2011 at 9:48 AM, catoismymotor (60.25) wrote:

That is great news and happy birthday! And happy new year!

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#18) On January 13, 2011 at 6:15 AM, andywd82 (48.27) wrote:

Nice post. Congrats on your wedding, and good luck with your business endeavours.   :)

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